Extended Breastfeeding

As World Breastfeeding Week comes to a close, I'd like to share with you my thoughts about extended breastfeeding. 

Extended Breastfeeding is simply feeding beyond 12 months. I'm still currently feeding my youngest at 13 months. I've heard a lot of comments from people recently regarding when we're going to stop feeding 'now that he's 1'. Well, in summary, we're going to continue feeding as long as we both feel comfortable and happy about the situation. Whether that be for another month or another year, that's fine by me. They're only small for a short while and he's still gaining a lot of nutrition and comfort from feeding.

So, why feed beyond a year? They've got teeth, they're eating food and often can ask for milk and eek, walk! Yes, I'm feeding a little one who can walk and can sign for milk. 

Here are some facts about feeding beyond infancy (taken from www.babycentre.co.uk;

Why is breastfeeding my toddler a good thing?

Even though your child is now getting most of his nutrition from solid food, breastmilk still provides immunity from some illnesses, as well as nutrients and vitamins. Breastfed toddlers get ill less often than those who aren't.

If your child is ill, breastmilk may be the only thing he feels like having, or the only food that he can keep down. You'll feel better too, knowing that you're helping him to fight the illness. 

As your child matures, breastfeeding lets you comfort and feel close to him. The strong attachment your child feels with you while feeding will actually help him to be independent, rather than clingy. Forcing a child to stop breastfeeding before he's ready won't necessarily create a more confident child.

Toddlers are always on the go, so breastfeeding gives you both a chance to take time out. It's a good way for you to relax and give your child your undivided attention. The feel-good effects of the hormones prolactin and oxytocin may help you to feel calm and connected with your child.

If you travel a lot, breastfeeding is much easier than carrying around milk, or worrying about having to buy supplies at your destination. And when you're staying away from home, the comfort of your breast may be the best way to soothe any fears. 

So next time you see a mum feeding her little one (who looks a little older than infancy) don't react with a shocked face, an inappropriate remark or a head shake. She's merely mothering her child in the way that she believes is best for her child. 

My youngest's feeding pattern varies, however he's gradually cutting back on feeds and tends to feed on a morning, nap time, before bed and a couple of times during the night. As a family, we're content with this situation and raising a happy, healthy toddler.